There are two ways to lead our lives which is our with our mind or our heart. Our mind is the “I should do this” decisions and our hearts are the “I must” and the “I want to do this.” Stop listening to the “shoulds” and instead listen to the other voice trying to be heard. Think about this, when you are faced with a decision ask yourself what will truly make you happier long term. This is leading with your heart. In life, that’s really all that matters. When we lead with our heart, what may seem selfish is, actually, so much less selfish. When you feed your soul (and heart) you lose all the worry and stress and doubt you have for yourself and can begin living for others.. and,also, begin truly living.